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Education, Character, Courage, AP High Court Judgment and Monalisa in Rajasthan Style

Understanding Character
A lot of times, we hear people talk about someone as a man of character. Other times, someone might be described as an unreliable character. Sometimes, we hear them referred to as quite a character!
When people begin to talk about character, there could be a dozen different shades to their tone. They might be sounding impressed, awed, disgusted, frightened, amused, bemused or a combination of these reactions.
What exactly is character? The dictionary would tell you that it is, basically, an attribute or a quality that defines a person. This means that you are defined by a certain set of habits, qualities or attitudes and these form the basis upon which you character is judged.
Character can have positive or negative associations. For instance, when someone is called a man of character, the unsaid adjective is a positive one. It means that he is ethically and morally upright and can be trusted.
When someone is just a character, it means that he is unique. He could be funny, awkward, interesting or ridiculous. But he has a strong distinctive personality that sets him apart from others.
Every attribute of you goes into the building of your character. If someone were to describe YOU as a character, they would take into consideration all aspects of your personality, including your physical appearance, your social habits, your psychological reactions and other people’s perception of your strengths. In fact, the last aspect – other people’s perceptions of you character – is what goes into giving you a reputation, whether positive or negative.
Courage is not something that comes from flying to your heart in moments of need or in emergencies. Courage is not something that can be handed over to you through lessons either.
Courage is a way of life. It is as much a habit as anything else. Like getting up and brushing your teeth in the morning, or drinking coffee.
It’s a matter of routine more than anything else. People tend to speak of courage only in terms of deeds. For instance, they might speak of courage in the battlefield. Soldiers and policemen are supposed to show courage. Or they might refer to courage in the face of devastation. Flood-affected people or earthquake victims must show courage.
However, courage is not merely the name you can give to your putting up with a bad situation. After all, in a bad situation, there is not much one can do expect cope with whatever strength and forbearance you can muster.
But though we don’t notice it, a lot of courage is part of our routines. The man who gets into a blocked sewer shows courage. The man who tills the land, not knowing whether he will have a good monsoon shows courage. The woman who resists the temptation to lavish goodies on her children shows courage. The child who breaks a leg on the football field but goes back to the game later shows courage. The student who is bent on following his dreamsshows courage.
The real test of courage is in our daily lives. Or should be.
The courage to speak the truth. All the time. Because lies are the biggest and most obvious sort of cowardice that all of us hide behind.
The courage to speak our mind and not stay silent, simply because we are afraid that other people might not agree with us. Of course, there will be conflicting views. And of course, conflict is unpleasant. But not speaking your mind can lead to much worse unpleasantness.
The courage to stand up for what we believe in. The courage to follow public rules and laws and insist that other people follow them too. The courage to resist those who take easy ways out, which only leads to more corruption and red tape in our social systems.
Mark Twain has said, Courage is not the absence of fear. It is acting in spite of it.
The sign of a courageous person, then, is someone who is feels, fear, recognizes fear and still goes on to do what he or she believes is right.
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Mothers: Have a kid’s library

Book reading a key part of Education
Many moms wonder what they can do to help their children be successful in school. The answer is surprisingly simple," said a senior teacher.

"Many of the things
parents do with their children as they work, play, read and talk together have an impact on the skills needed to become a confident and competent student.

"Singing songs, making up silly rhymes, talking about what you see, pointing out letters and words in the environment and reading together are just a few activities parents can do," she added.

Parents can support their children's learning with talking at the dinner table, playing games together, sharing household chores or while riding in the car.

It could also be done by making reading a daily habit of the family. Everyone should have a library card and teach children that reading is fun.
Creating reading rituals by setting aside a special time and place every day so that they enjoy stories without interruptions.

Moreover, cuddling closely with your child to foster a sense of security can actually eliminate stress that scientists believe produce hormones, which blocks learning.

Mealtimes can be the best opportunity to enhance learning skills. Various programs have shown success in incorporating mealtime with literacy. In Southern California, the McDonald's Family Mealtime Literacy Nights have resulted in parents using its strategies and materials at home to improve literacy skills.
GIFT the reading
Is the reading habit among children gradually dying out?
A WIDE range of books has been making its way into bookstores in the city. Today, young readers have an array of books to choose from- comics to fairy tales and adventure stories to books on sorcery.
Books, it is said, are a man's best friend. But the adage holds true now more than ever before as reading introduces children to the world of books. Books that have stories about personal responsibility, tolerance for others and self reliance in clear but not overbearing ways help shape the child's personality and social environment.
But given half a chance, most children would spend hours together staring at the computer screen or television. And it is this habit that has been worrying parents these days. There is a growing concern about the effect of television and Internet on the reading habits of children.
The libraries may not always be pulling in the punters the way they used to, but they sure do introduce pre-schoolers and the likes into the world of reading. Reading may be a solitary pastime, but parents need to reinforce this habit in the child. However, parents should never force them to read, says Dr. A. Nirmala, child psychologist. Parents should find out on the kind of books that interests their child. They should put these books at a place where the child can easily locate them, she feels. "Reading habits can thus be encouraged, without it becoming a chore," says Dr. Nirmala. According to her, parents talk in public about their children watching television thereby give acceptance to it. "Instead, they should tell the children about the disadvantages of watching too much of television. Parents must provide children with alternatives, while cutting down on the viewing time. It is important that parents spend quality time with the children."
M. S. Indira, child psychologist, Child Development Centre (CDC), feels that parents need to play role models. "They should buy and read books and inculcate the same habit in their children."
Even if parents do not read, impressing on the child that books are fun ought to do half the trick. Parents could try and pick up a book, and read in the presence of the child. This would help convey to the child the message that reading is an enjoyable experience. And as children love to imitate elders they are quite likely to grab a book or magazine and pore over it.
Ten-year-old Priya is an avid reader and loves reading fairy tales, short stories and illustrated classics. "Earlier, I used to read out aloud to Priya and play `grandmother games' with her. Now she just loves books; they are her best companions," says Shalini, Priya's mother.
It all depends on how and when you introduce your child to books.
Reading, say child psychologists, is a habit and if children do not acquire it by the time they are in Class V or VI, they do not normally pick it up.
So, how early is late and how late is early? The earlier parents inculcate reading habits in children, the better it is say child psychologists in the city.
Catch them young should be the motto of parents. "Parents should ask the children to read out to them and encourage them to talk about what they read. If the channels of communication with the children are shut off, they are likely to become close minded," says Dr. Arvind Thampi, consultant psychologist, Centre for Psychological Services.
"Joint book reading sessions with family members helps in reinforcing reading habits as does peer support," he says.
Reading clubs and library sessions play a crucial role in promoting reading habits. Parents, teachers and book publishers can help create an awareness about books and the need to read. Children's book exhibitions can also go a long way in making them aware about books on various subjects, feels Sriranjini, a teacher.
Schools in the city too are doing their bit to prevent the reading habit from dying out but feel academic pressure is a constraint. Says Sister Renita, principal, Carmel Girls School, "Though we have readers clubs and interactive group discussions, the response is rather lukewarm. Most parents seem to be interested only in the academics." Achamma Zacharia, principal, St. Thomas Residential School, Mukkola, says, "Children are encouraged to jot down their impression of the book they have read recently."
Achamma Zacharia feels that television channels such as Discovery, History, National Geography and the Quiz programmes have helped create an interest in children. Children should be guided to watch programme that could help widen their horizons of knowledge, she observes.
M. R. Rajendran, an English teacher with the Kendriya Vidyalaya School, stresses on the importance of time management. "It is sad that students work only when marks are the incentive." Lack of time-not, so far, the Internet or television- emerges as the greatest enemy of the reading habit. Fears that the reading habit is on the decline is dispelled by librarians and bookstore owners. Says Ashok Kumar of Ashok Books, "It depends on the family and the environment at home. If the parents are avid readers, chances are that the children too will be fond of reading." But if children are forced to read books beyond their comprehension, it tends to puts them off, adds Ashok.
Despite the influence of the electronic media on children, books are here to stay. All the Book Festivals held in the country are best example for this.  The Book Festivals of Kolkata and Vijayawada are considered to be best in India.  As exam fever gives way to long summer vacations, encourage your child to read and gift your child a book or two. For, reading is one of the true pleasures of everyday life. Happy reading together!

Chaduvu rani Vadavani

VATAPATRA SAIKI

Chandamama Raave

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